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On Being a Princess

by Jessica on March 12, 2008

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Since I’ve never really shared much of the reason behind Reflections of a Princess,
I thought I’d start here on what being a princess means. Enjoy!

A princess of grace is a woman who has accepted Christ as her Lord and Savior and trusted him with her life. She is on a life-long journey of falling deeper in love with Jesus and binding her life in His. A princess of grace is concerned with God’s glory and renown. Her life purpose is to proclaim Christ in her life—through her thoughts, words, and actions. A princess of grace understands that she is not perfect and sin will still erupt in her life. Though she still struggles with the old self a princess of grace knows that its proper place is at the foot of the cross, and her hope lies in knowing that her position in Christ is eternally set and her condition is continually being sanctified.


A Princess Story [Note: A Princess Story is a novel/spiritual growth book I started and have yet to finish. It has evolved much over the years, since the idea began. I'll share more about it later.] is based on 1 John 3:1 and Psalms 45:10-11, 13. First John 3:1, “How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Psalms 45:10-11, 13, “Listen, O daughter, consider and give ear: Forget your people and your father’s house. The King is enthralled by your beauty; honor him, for he is your lord…All glorious is the princess within her chamber; her gown is interwoven with gold.”


A princess of grace realizes her position in the kingdom of God. She has been adopted as a daughter possessing the full rights of sonship (Ro. 8:15-17) becoming an heir with Christ. A princess of grace also knows that she is not simply the daughter of a King, but the betrothed of Prince Jesus, who gave up his life and arose from the dead to live with her in eternity forever. She knows that on the day of the Lord her True Love will come to carry her home as His bride, and she waits in patient joy for that day. Until then, a princess of grace spends her time following deeper in love with her Prince, delighting in him as he delights and takes pleasure in her.


When a woman begins the journey with Jesus she forgets and leaves behind her former way of life and is totally loyal to her adoring Prince. He is enthralled by her beauty. He finds no flaw in her (SS 4:7) and takes her unto the higher places to engage in deeper communion with him. The princess may be nervous and a bit scared by approaching the higher places, knowing that struggles and death will be present, but she knows in the end she will reflect more of her King. A princess of grace trusts the infinite knowledge of her Father and trusts the (confident) loving guidance her Prince’s hand holds. She knows neither will leave her and the high places will drive her closer still to each.


A princess of grace knows her journey is life-long and that joys and trials will come. However, she knows everything will be worth it; “But whatever was to my profit I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ” (Phil. 3:7-8).


And so, she steps out confidently in faith to journey as a princess of grace. She is joyful and will willingly lose all she has to keep her love, the dream and desire that has so long been held in her heart, an authentic romance.


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An Invitation to Come

by Jessica on May 11, 2007

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He never stops. He’s a hardcore, faithful romantic that never stops his pursuit. His love is eternal, everlasting, never ceasing. He invites us to come closer to Him and higher with Him at every turn. He never stops. He wants you. He wants you to be closer with Him today than you were yesterday, and even closer tomorrow. His affection is undying and his commitment never wavers. This is His invitation, His spoken Word, asking you his beautifully adorned beloved to take His hand and climb through life with Him. He desires you like no one else will or can ever desire you, not because no one will want you, but no one can fulfill that desire, which is also in you, like He can. His love is supernatural.

- from A Princess Story

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Everyone Wants to be a…

by Jessica on February 8, 2007

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princess.

Working with children I am privy to the thoughts of three, four, and five-year-olds. It’s always interesting to hear their thought process and reasoning. Sometimes even a blessing. Let me share with you what I learned yesterday.

I was working with a little three-year-old girl, Maddi (the littlest angel), and she just started talking about seemingly random things.

“Jesus loves me and God does too.”

“You’re right. Did you know that they’re the same person?” I said.

“Uh huh,” was her reply.

“Next year I taking swimming classes. My brother, Alex, him too. And I’ll wear my swimming suit. And Alex he’ll wear his swimming shorts. Mmhm.”

“When I grow up I want to be a princess.”

“Oh yeah, which princess do you like the most?”

“Cindrella.”

“Why do you like Cinderella?”

“Because she’s beautiful.”

“What makes her beautiful, Maddi?”

“I don’t know. She’s just pretty.” I think she might have mentioned something about her shiny dress. At this time another Jade, a four-year-old, piped up from across the room and said Cinderella was her favorite princess too. When I asked her why she also said, “Because she’s beatiful.” I asked Jade why she thought Cinderella was beautiful, “Because she’s got shiny shoes.”

(This is where it gets really cute.)

“I’m going to be a princess when I grow up.”

“Oh yeah.”

“Yeah, Jesus is going to make me a princess when I grown-up.”

“Maddi, Jesus can make you a princess now.”

To which she replied, “Yeah, when I grow-up I’ll be a princess.”

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That night at youth group, we doing an exercise on sharing our testimonies with the kids and having them share theirs in preparation for Mission Trip to Your Friends which kicks off Friday. After I shared my testimony one of my junior highers started to share hers. She was a bit nervous and didn’t know where to start. We’ve been talking with the kids about when we share Christ to share out of our personal lives and how Christ has changed us, because ultimately when people hear and then see what Christ has done for us they’ll be moved. Sharing a personal Christ is more powerful than simply sharing “Jesus died for you. Repent and be saved.” Anyways, that’s another topic for another day.
As she started sharing she began to cry. She was sharing how there are parental expectations on her (in regard to school) and that when she doesn’t meet them she feels like she disappoints them and then turns inward on herself. She admitted to wanting to please people and is sad when she doesn’t. She shared more, but in essence she struggles with her self-worth and identity.
She was wearing a shirt that said “I am a princess! My Father is the King of kings.” I had her read her shirt to me and asked her if she believed that. She said yes. I asked her what she thought a princess was and she told me a princess was someone who was always happy and everything went right for her. I told her that a princess doesn’t always have everything together. She’s not always happy and things don’t always go right, but she is confident in her position that the Father has given her. A princess knows where she stands, she knows her position in the Lord and is confident. We continued to talk and I had the opportunity to share with her more of my personal testimony and how Jesus began to reveal to me all the imagery in the Bible that refers to being a princess and that relationship with the Lord as Father and Jesus as our Beloved. It’s powerful, and I believe every girl wants to be a princess.
Just like my junior higher, she didn’t feel like a princess but she yearns to be that princess. I’m convinced that God planned things this way. That he put within us that desire to be loved, cherished, desired, beautiful, happy, and fulfilled. He placed that desire in our hearts from a very young age, just like Maddi and Jade, and events occur in our lives that taint the realization of our position as princesses. But the Lord knows, that desire is still within us, but it can only come to completion within Him.
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